I haven't posted a blog in longer than I'm happy with, but to be frank, this month has been rough on my mental health. That said, over the past few days I noticed something positive about myself that I definitely link to me being a borderline. Not only do I love fiercely, I care fiercely … Continue reading Assumptions are dangerous.
Tag: dialectical behavior therapy
It Burns
Sometimes stuff happens that hits close to home, whether it's in your heart, or literally close to where you live. Last night, a friend of mine texted me about a fire where she lives, which happens to be where I grew up for the first thirteen years of my life. It wasn't just a small … Continue reading It Burns
BPD Growing Up Part 2: I Loved Him
I wasn't the type to date around in high school. I always got too attached & break ups were very emotionally scarring, which now I realize was the BPD I didn't know I had. This one particular boy, who I will call H, came basically out of nowhere. H and I had known each other … Continue reading BPD Growing Up Part 2: I Loved Him
We Are Not Lab Rats
Something happened yesterday in one of the support groups I am in. Myself and other borderlines post in that group seeking help for our behaviors; guidance for our intense emotions because we want to heal from years of suffering in a life like this, and need support in doing so. A certain author joined our … Continue reading We Are Not Lab Rats
Money
Growing up, I probably knew more about our finances than I needed to. My mom was always having to borrow money from friends, and then never paid them back on time, if at all. She vented out loud, usually when we were driving somewhere, and I remember tensing up because I knew what was coming. … Continue reading Money

